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"The whole experience was awesome, wonderful—I can’t wait to start a new chapter!”

"Yolande helped me to remove the biggest psychological barrier in my world and in my life. Through root cause analysis, she helped me clearly see the areas of my life I needed to work on. One thing I really liked about our interactions was gradually building layers on top of another, making me stronger, Spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and mentally.

I would recommend Yolande to anybody who has issues in their lives because she can clearly see the layers that need to be peeled off, one layer at a time. The whole experience was awesome, wonderful, I can’t wait to start a new chapter!” 

Breaking point to EMPOWERED

When a 60-year-old CEO of a global tech firm came to me, he was on the verge of ending yet another long-term relationship. Trapped in a lifelong cycle of people-pleasing, conflict-avoidance, and bottled-up anger, he was exhausted from constantly putting others first. His breaking point? A near-breakup with the love of his life and yet another wave of suppressed rage.

THE SHIFT:

Through my Conscious (R)EVOLUTION Programme, a radical transformation of mind, body, & Soul. We tackled his root programming head-on:


Released decades of ingrained people-pleasing and unexpressed anger.

Installed a new emotional operating system: calm, congruence, and fearless self-expression.

Equipped him with tools to communicate clearly, assertively, and with grace, even in high-stakes situations.

To unapologetically speak his truth, without fear of rejection, without the guilt of confrontation.

He craved one thing:

THE MAGIC QUESTION HE ANSWERED:

What would you do if you had no fear? “I’d speak my mind—clearly, concisely, and eloquently.”

THE OUTCOME:

Today, this visionary CEO isn’t just “managing” his emotions, he’s thriving.

  • His relationships are richer, more honest, and far more connected.
  • He has mastered the art of saying “no” without guilt—and “yes” to himself.
  • He feels lighter, freer, and deeply in control of his life.
  • He’s prioritising what lights him up—family, adventure, golf, and personal joy.

HIS words now? 

Calm. Direct. Powerful.

EVAN, (60)

Conscious (R)EVOLUTION.

CASE STUDY | THE CEO WHO TOOK HIS POWER BACK

His presence? 

Grounded. Self-honouring. Unapologetic.

"I recognise now that I am and Elite athlete. I am an avid yoga enthusiast and I’m training for my next Iron Man Competition." 

Omg. I am grateful for finding you Yolande! I am grateful the universe brought me to you. I was ready and you were the perfect person for me to do this. You are a game changer for me. I am literally crying writing this. Tears of gratitude. It feels so good to like myself. It was exhausting hating myself. Although I know I will most likely have moments of weakness, I know I have the strength to combat it because of the tools you have equipped me with. Thanks so much for being you!!! I'm blessed to have found you. Game changer in my life!

Yolande helped me by learning how to love myself. One thing I really liked was how down-to-earth and easy you are to talk to. I would recommend Yolande to anyone who authentically wants help because she has such an open down-to-earth way of connecting with people with no judgement (F-word therapy ;-) I didn't expect RTT to so much impact as it had! The whole experience was transformational.

Self loathing to SELF LOVE

When a 54-year-old exceptional educational assistant came to me, she was drowning in self-loathing, comparison, and a brutal inner critic refusing to let her forgive or forget her past. Her upbringing was chaotic and abusive, leaving her trapped in self-sabotage, people-pleasing, and a cycle of guilt, procrastination, and low self-worth. She felt exhausted, defensive, and unable to finish anything she started.

THE SHIFT:

Through my Conscious (R)EVOLUTION Programme, we dismantled decades of internalised shame, people-pleasing, and self-loathing:

She rewired her mind to break the addiction to self-judgment and comparison.

She began speaking to herself with compassion and truth.

She unlocked her drive, focus, and inner peace, without apology.

To finally love herself—and stop caring what others think.

Her core desire?

THE MAGIC QUESTION SHE ANSWERED:

If you had no fear, what would you do? “I’d challenge myself more, speak up for my needs, and stop worrying about what others think.”

THE OUTCOME:

she’s unstoppable. Her self-loathing thoughts have completely vanished.

  • She no longer straightens her naturally curly hair to “fit in” instead, she looked in the mirror and cried tears of joy, seeing her natural beauty for the first time in her life.
  • She’s fully committed to herself, she is training for Ironman competitions, practicing yoga daily, bought a beautiful new home and inspiring others through her own transformation.
  • She’s no longer triggered by others’ words, choosing instead to stand grounded, calm, and powerful.
  • She’s no longer surviving her life. She’s owning it, with joy, laughter, and radical self-love.

Lydia 52

Conscious (R)EVOLUTION.

CASE STUDY | FROM SELF-LOATHING TO SELF-LOVE: HER RADICAL TURNAROUND


The whole experience was supportive, challenging, and deeply enriching.

"I am grateful for leaving a relationship that wasn’t satisfying—after fully exhausting every avenue.
My new beliefs? Emotions are essential; they fuel growth, connection, and guide you to your truth.”

Yolande helped me gain perspective and expand my spiritual growth. What I really liked was her direct, no-nonsense communication, her candour. I’d recommend her to people who need less ‘kid gloves’ than most therapists offer—because she’s honest, direct, and doesn’t sugarcoat. The whole experience was supportive, challenging, and deeply enriching. Advice to my earlier self? Just sit and listen. The answers are already there.”

Abandonment to RECLAMATION 

When a 47-year-old high achiever, global events CEO came to me, he was stuck in a painful loop of self-abandonment. Despite outward success—running a company that showcase many A-List musicians and artist —he couldn’t stop betraying himself. Years of people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, and overthinking left him disconnected, numb, and burnt out from constantly sacrificing his needs for others’ comfort.

THE SHIFT:

Through my Conscious (R)EVOLUTION Programme, we unearthed his deep-rooted habit of abandoning his emotional and Spiritual self:

He released old programming around needing to “go along” for approval.

He stopped intellectualising his life and began feeling again—deeply.

He started speaking his truth with clarity and courage, instead of hiding.

To honour himself fully—without guilt, fear, or apology.

His core goal?

THE MAGIC QUESTION HE ANSWERED:

What would you do if you had no fear?  “I’d honour myself fully—only doing what’s true for me, loving freely, and speaking openly.”

THE OUTCOME:

Now, he’s reclaiming his life:

  • He protects his time and energy unapologetically, only engaging in conversations and relationships that truly matter.
  • He speaks freely and no longer forces connections or sacrifices his truth to keep the peace.
  • Friends are noticing his sharper clarity, calm energy, and new sense of peace.
  • He feels integrated—emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically aligned.
  • He’s no longer just “thinking” through life—he’s feeling, living, and loving it.

Sebastian 47

Conscious (R)EVOLUTION.

CASE STUDY | THE MAN WHO STOPPED ABANDONING HIMSELF


“Yolande helped me to set boundaries, which led to healthier choices. 

"I never knew how to love myself unconditionally, now I know love is within me, and I can tap into it anytime.  I really liked the self-discovery, and how she called me on my bullshit! I’d recommend her to anyone seeking a true mind, body, and Soul journey. I want to give YOU to everyone! Because this is FAR MORE than just therapy."

I didn’t expect an all-encompassing Spiritual Awakening, or the sheer power and frequency of the messages from the universe. The whole experience was overwhelmingly beautiful and enlightening. It’s exactly what people need, someone to look into everything. I wish everyone could feel like this!”

Self sabotage to SOUL SUCCESS

When a 42-year old Senior Analyst and Human Rights Lawyer came to me, she was caught in an exhausting spiral of binge eating, depression, drinking, and emotional burnout. Her high-pressure career was demanding, but it was her inner chaos that felt impossible to escape. She felt ungrounded, untethered, and terrified of being alone—yet always chose isolation.

THE SHIFT:

Inside my Radical RECALIBRATION programme, we unlocked the truth behind her patterns:



She stopped running from herself and confronted her fear of stillness.

She rewired her relationship with food, alcohol, and her body.

She began honouring her mornings as sacred, reclaiming balance, peace, and purpose.

To wake up energised, grounded, and wildly in love with her life.

Her biggest longing?

THE MAGIC QUESTION SHE ANSWERED:

What would you do if you had no fear? “I’d wake up early, feel energised, move my body, and nourish myself—without guilt, without extremes.”

THE OUTCOME:

Today, her life is unrecognisable:

  • She’s engaged to her soulmate and thriving in a beautiful, blended family.
  • She’s a dedicated runner, competing in local races, and exploring new adventures.
  • She honours her body daily through meal prep, fitness, and mindful living.
  • She no longer feels lonely—even in solitude. She radiates peace, confidence, and joy.
  • She now lives every day as if it’s spring—fresh, vibrant, and full of possibility.

Her words now? 

Grounded. Energetic. Unapologetically alive.

kaia 45

Radical RECALIBRATION.

CASE STUDY | SELF-SABOTAGE TO SOUL-FUELLED SUCCESS

Yolande helped me see myself as whole, and enjoy the freedom of being Unapologetically me!"

"Yolande helped me see myself as whole, and how to revel in the FREEDOM of just being me, UNAPOLOGETICALLY! One thing I really liked was being called out on my BS — and being shown a different way of seeing, feeling and relief in simply being me. I’d recommend Yolande to anyone in desperate need of moving through their burnout and FINALLY finding their Bliss. She’s a beyond a therapist, she's an expert and more importantly, a deeply intuitive human who sees beyond conventions and to the truth of you who really are as an unapologetically whole human. Yolande is a gift and she's brilliant AF!

From Burnout to BLISSFUL!

When a 42-year-old creative director, brand strategist, and photographer came to me, she was running on fumes. Her outer world looked successful — high-end clients, brilliant ideas, an inspiring portfolio — but inside she was drowning in perfectionism, self-neglect, and a relentless sense that she was never enough. Her nervous system was fried. Her boundaries were paper-thin. And the emotional cost of over giving was bleeding into her health, her work, and her relationships.

THE SHIFT:

Inside my Radical RECALIBRATION programme, we untangled the deep, raw origin of her pain: adoption trauma, unresolved grief, and the belief that love had to be earned through doing. Together, we:

Dismantled the inner voice that punished her for never being “perfect enough.”

Rewired the guilt-fuelled programming that told her she had to suffer to succeed.

Anchored her into unshakable self-worth, not for what she does, but for who she is.

To stop performing for worth — and start living from wholeness.

Her biggest wish?

THE MAGIC QUESTION SHE ANSWERED:

If you had no fear, what would you do? “I’d wake up inspired, grounded, joyful, KNOWING I’m more than enough, and create from overflow, not obligation.”

THE OUTCOME:

Now, she’s no longer living in survival mode. SHE'S Found Her BLISS!

  • She eats, sleeps, swims, and creates from a place of nourishment, not burnout.
  • She’s set real boundaries and finally delegated work without guilt.
  • She lets go of perfection in favour of completion — and feels lighter, calmer, and more content.
  • She’s released the pressure, reclaimed her joy, and feels safe in her own skin.
  • She knows now: her 10% is often more than most people’s 100%.
  • She’s not proving anymore. She’s radiant, creating, loving, living — freely.

Her words now? 

I AM GRATEFUL: I feel lighter, calmer &  more peaceful. I’ve said no without guilt, let go of things, asked for help, and delegated. No more migraines. I eat every day. I feel like myself again!

NICOLE 42

Radical RECALIBRATION.

CASE STUDY | THE CREATIVE VISIONARY WHO FINALLY LET GO OF "NOT ENOUGH"

After years on therapists couches, this is the FIRST time it actually worked for me! I didn’t expect it to, but I feel so much lighter, confident and like I can achieve so much more, while being true to me and fulfilling my needs first! The whole experience was truly transformational and eye-opening, it’s even deepened my relationships, now that I'm no longer running on empty!"

"Yolande helped me get clear on everything—health, emotions, boundaries."

"I like who I am. Other people’s opinions roll off me. No one has power over me anymore. Yolande helped me get clear on everything—health, emotions, boundaries. What I really liked was the ability to go back in time. #Timetravelling.
I’d recommend Yolande to anyone needing holistic support—because she explores the problem from every angle."

Hiding to VISIBLY THRIVING

When a 44-year-old accomplished senior business analyst came to me, she was burned out from caregiving, frozen by fear, and shackled by shame. Despite her intelligence and success, self-judgement was stealing her joy. Dating felt terrifying. Visibility felt unsafe. She wanted connection—but hid from intimacy, new hobbies, career moves, and her own potential.

THE SHIFT:

Inside my Radical RECALIBRATION programme, we time-travelled to the origins of her shame—teasing, judgment, silence—and rewired her belief that she had to hide in order to be safe:

She stopped letting others’ opinions dictate her worth.


She learned to speak without hesitation and set clear, confident boundaries.

She stopped waiting to be chosen—and chose herself.

To show up confidently, socially, and unapologetically as herself.

Her deepest desire?

THE MAGIC QUESTION SHE ANSWERED:

What would you do if you had no fear?
“I’d stop hiding. I’d be open, confident, captivating, and free to express myself.”


THE OUTCOME:

Today, she’s glowing:

  • She speaks her truth without flinching—and actually enjoys being seen.
  • She plans birthdays, holidays, hobbies, and events—for herself and with others.
  • She's dating, swimming, horseback riding, volunteering, and living fully.
  • She holds her boundaries, says no without apology, and owns her story.
  • She's calm, clear, and no longer consumed by other people’s opinions.
  • She’s not asking permission anymore. She belongs—everywhere she goes.

Her words now? 

I’m clearer about my future. My mind is calm.

aja 42

Radical RECALIBRATION.

CASE STUDY | THE WOMAN WHO STOPPED HIDING & STARTED LIVING.


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For more than 25 years, I have been helping people align with their powerful potential by reconnecting them with their AUTHENTIC SELVES AND OWN INNER WISDOM.

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